Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts

Friday, April 16, 2010

Thank God It's Friday: Thank God for "High Normal"

Today, it's Friday again. I haven't had a TGIF post in a couple of weeks. I certainly am thankful, but I just haven't expressed it here...

My wife and I are in the homestudy phase of preparing to adopt a child. In fact, all of the paperwork that needs to come from us for the homestudy has been submitted. We're still waiting on a couple of other pieces to make it back to the agency, but that's not what I'm rambling about today...

One of the things that I had to do for the homestudy was go to the doctor. Except for when I broke my ankle two summers ago, I haven't been to see the doctor in a long time. So, I went. One of the nurses took my blood pressure. As she took the reading, she had kind of an "oh my, this is bad" expression on her face. In fact, they took my blood pressure several times before I left the office trying to rule out "white coat hypertension" or as I kind of thought of it "I haven't been to the doctor in forever and being here just makes by blood pressure go sky high" hypertension. So, obviously my blood pressure is high and I'm given instruction to check it a couple of times a week, eat better, excercise more, so on and so forth, and come back in a month.

A few days later, I'm at Costco and I check it. Yup, it's high. Since I've got time to kill (we were getting two new tires on the van, why oh why didn't we bring both cars?????), I go ahead and buy a home blood pressure monitor. On the side of the screen, the monitor has a four bar scale for dummies to read their blood pressure (it also has the more meaningful numbers too).

  • one bar = normal
  • two bars = high normal
  • three bars = stage 1 hypertension
  • four bars = state 2 hypertension

After seeing the four-bar scale, I'm guessing that when I was in the doctor's office, I was probably at five bars or "if we prick you, your blood will spurt out and hit the wall on the opposite side of the exam room, possibly even busting a hole in the wall as it hits hypertension." Since they didn't tell me what the actual numbers were I can only guess.

So, in the weeks since, I've been doing lots of things to help bring my blood pressure down, including

  • trying to eat better
  • exercising more
  • trying not to watch too many innings of the Phillies clobbering the Nationals (admittedly, the Phillies only two losses have been at the hands of the Nationals, "Gentlemen Zim" or "Franchise" really came through last night)
  • hardly watching any of the Baltimore ANGELOSers
  • taking my vitamins and supplements

Well, in that stretch I've seen a lot of three bars and a fair number of four bars too. After my doctors visit this week, I've started taking a fine product of Novartis pharmaceuticals. Guess what, this morning when I sat down to check my blood pressure, it was only in the two bar range. OK, it was at the high end of the two bar range, but nevertheless it was in the two bar range. It's probably the effect of the bp drug although I am persuaded it's also due to Ryan Zimmerman's two run pinch hit homer last night. It's still high, but it's being coming down. I'm not dead yet, in fact, I feel like taking a walk. So today, I thank God for "High Normal."

Friday, February 26, 2010

Thank God It's Friday: Thank God for Adoption

For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.

Ephesians 1:4-6

I am truly thankful that God has adopted me into his family. He did this out of love for me that I didn't deserve. Yet, I happily receive it. I did not choose Him, He chose me. At home, my wife and I have a stack of papers that we are starting to fill out to begin the process of adopting a child. Our two sons are excited about the possibility of bringing another into our family. My younger son is especially excited about the possibility of being a big brother. I am excited about the opportunity to love another like God has loved me. I am excited about the process and the wait - it may take a couple of years before the child is with us (it all depends on choices yet unmade). If we decide on an international adoption, I am excited about learning about the country our child will come from. I can't say that I'm excited about all of the paperwork, but I know that needs to be done and I suppose I should be excited to get it started. Yes, today I truly want to thank God for adoption!